Monday, November 17, 2008

100


My grandmother, Maud May Waugaman Rensel, 
was born in Sykesville, PA on November 17, 1908,
the fourth of six children.
I think of her often.

I think of her intricate, jungle-like gardens.
"Look, Susie, it looks like God used a purple paintbrush on a white iris."
She taught me that carrots are best eaten when standing in the garden,
a little dirt makes them taste even better.

Grandma made me costumes each year.
I won "most creative" in her gypsy costume in first grade.
She made a huge wardrobe for my Barbies;
only as an adult did I appreciate the tiny armholes and tinier buttons.

Grandma had great Christmas stuff,
and I could play with it anytime.
She'd make cutout cookies all year round.
(Poinsettias don't have to have red icing, you know.
And Kayro syrup makes icing extra shiny.)
Rainy summer afternoons,
we'd find our way to the attic
for the Christmas decorations 
that were stored near Uncle Jack's early taxidermy animals...
pasteboard houses, bottle brush trees, glass angel choirs.
She bought them in downtown Pittsburgh
when she rode the bus to her eye appointments.
She never drove.  Ever.

Grandma taught Sunday School
and Vacation Bible School.
Whenever I read Genesis 1
I picture her little planets for each day of creation.
"And it was good."

I remember her strong alto voice.
She had taken voice lessons in her youth...
great lung capacity, also good for burping.
No teenaged boy could outdo her.
She could rattle windows.

Sunday dinners were amazing.
Homemade rolls. 
Mashed potatoes and gravy.
Ham.
Homemade noodles with little pieces of celery.
Stuffed celery.
Candied sweet potatoes.
Corn from her garden.
Harvard beets.
Fried beets.
(I love beets.)
Raisin-filled cookies.
Apricot-filled cookies.
And pie! Cherry. Sour cherry.
With brown sugar streusel topping.

Maud was married the year Charles Lindbergh crossed the Atlantic.
She and Bernie eloped,
drove across the border to Salamanca, New York.
They survived the depression
with the help of a barber shop.
"Your hair grows even when you are poor."

She helped Grandpa Bernie build their camp.
Strong.
"Maud the Mule," she'd say.

She raised three boys 
with a sense of humor and great tolerance.
Who else would allow boys to bring rattlesnakes
into their backyard in town?
"Don't you dare lose any."

When Bernie died after a preventative Swine Flu shot,
Maud moved to Florida to live with her sister during the winters.
She who rarely travelled went to Europe,
to Oberammergau, Germany
to see the passion play.
She wrote us postcards,
and later, long letters
in her loopy handwriting.
They always included a joke or two. 
Always.

In her last years,
she lost her memories of most things,
but could belt out hymns to the very end.

Tonight, Paul, Katrina, and Anna came for supper.     
On the table were Maud's white china dishes, 
her figures of kids from around the world,
her tiny plastic Mother Goose statues
(more eye appointment finds).

Happy 100th birthday, Grandma.
I love you.

Susie





1 comment:

Rensel Studio said...

Maude did drive to Sykesville - where grandmother Waugaman lived. It was 6 miles away and that was the only time she ever drove the car - to Grandma's and back. On one of our return trips she was driving a little fast, apparently, because as she was leaving town the constable stopped her. He pulled her over and I was nervous because I had never had any experience with a law enforcement person before. Anyhow, she stopped and he came to the window, and said, "Driving a little fast there, Maudie". Mom said, "Oh, I'm sorry, I wasn't paying attention." He said, "Well, good to see you, but drive a little slower next time."
Jack Rensel